Hello

[Patti42]

My husband has been in a home for 3 weeks as I was too ill to look after him. I have missed him loads and he us returning home on Friday. When I visited him to he said "stop shouting " very difficult as I was not shouting. I can bearing speak. I got really concerned about him coming home and will I be able to manage. He is profoundly deaf. Maybe his hearing aids were turned up to much or maybe he has imagined it. Any advice would be really appreciated. Thank you

 

[Kevinl]

Do what you think is right, for you. Maybe a no is right but for me when your heart says yes... I'm saying no, not right now, if my wife posted what you have I'd tell her to walk, hard as it may be to walk alone hard as it may be. K

 

[jennifer1967]

my husband says not to shout even talking in a normal level. it seems that their ears get very sensitive and he says its actually painful for it to be too loud.

 

[northumbrian_k]

Hi @Patti42 and welcome to Dementia Support Forum. You'll find lots of helpful suggestions and support from our experienced and friendly members.