Hello everyone,
My name is Rachel and my Mum has received her official Alzheimers diagnosis. She has early stage, well I assume it is early stage. You don't get too much guidance on this from the consultant. At the moment she just has very poor short term memory. Most days she struggles to remember what she has done a couple of hours ago. Otherwise she is ok. I just get overwhelmed with worrying about her and her vulnerability. It is like having a child in some respects, in terms of telling them what to do and her trusting everything you say. It just feels an incredible responsibility to make all these decisions for her. We are in the process of helping her buy a flat in a supported living accommodation. Day to day she is still able to live independently but does need some care (check she has taken her meds, preparing meals etc). But again, we worry are we doing the right thing. She cannot live on her own, but it would be wrong to put her in a nursing home. She has started memantine. Generally she is doing ok, although a bit constipated. So that is us. Life does feel incredibly overwhelming and we (my sister and I) have no idea really what we are doing, but I guess it is just a day at a time. I just want to make sure we are doing the best we can for Mum. Quality of life is hard in the sense that her days are often spent listening to the radio, watching tv or sleeping. We try to take her out when we can, but it is hard due to work etc. When we do, within a couple of hours she has forgotten!!! Thank you for listening x
My name is Rachel and my Mum has received her official Alzheimers diagnosis. She has early stage, well I assume it is early stage. You don't get too much guidance on this from the consultant. At the moment she just has very poor short term memory. Most days she struggles to remember what she has done a couple of hours ago. Otherwise she is ok. I just get overwhelmed with worrying about her and her vulnerability. It is like having a child in some respects, in terms of telling them what to do and her trusting everything you say. It just feels an incredible responsibility to make all these decisions for her. We are in the process of helping her buy a flat in a supported living accommodation. Day to day she is still able to live independently but does need some care (check she has taken her meds, preparing meals etc). But again, we worry are we doing the right thing. She cannot live on her own, but it would be wrong to put her in a nursing home. She has started memantine. Generally she is doing ok, although a bit constipated. So that is us. Life does feel incredibly overwhelming and we (my sister and I) have no idea really what we are doing, but I guess it is just a day at a time. I just want to make sure we are doing the best we can for Mum. Quality of life is hard in the sense that her days are often spent listening to the radio, watching tv or sleeping. We try to take her out when we can, but it is hard due to work etc. When we do, within a couple of hours she has forgotten!!! Thank you for listening x