Hello, my name is maggie. I'm a full-time carer and the only child of my mother who has been suffering from Alzheimer's since 2019; she's turning 89 in June.
Recently, she has developed an obsession with spending an excessive amount of time in the toilet and goes to the toilet almost every hour; sometimes she doesn't have any discharge. She doesn't have incontinence and wears pull-up pants, but still chooses to go to the toilet (the commode at night). It largely affects her sleeping quality and daily life. I've brought her to the GP and Continence Nurse, and they both said it's her dementia sending her the wrong signal urging her to the toilet. Because of her unstable BP, no suitable medication has been prescribed.
I feel helpless, disappointed and frustrated, she keeps asking for the toilet when going out. I hope to get some advice to soothe her "toilet obsession" suffering. Very difficult to manage her and myself!
Recently, she has developed an obsession with spending an excessive amount of time in the toilet and goes to the toilet almost every hour; sometimes she doesn't have any discharge. She doesn't have incontinence and wears pull-up pants, but still chooses to go to the toilet (the commode at night). It largely affects her sleeping quality and daily life. I've brought her to the GP and Continence Nurse, and they both said it's her dementia sending her the wrong signal urging her to the toilet. Because of her unstable BP, no suitable medication has been prescribed.
I feel helpless, disappointed and frustrated, she keeps asking for the toilet when going out. I hope to get some advice to soothe her "toilet obsession" suffering. Very difficult to manage her and myself!