I've joined today after a friend advised me to !
My husband and I have been together 30 years. He had a serious brain injury 12 years ago and our lives changed dramatically. We have rubbed along pretty well however even though I have fitted my life around him. I've been able to keep working, part time and seeing friends. He isn't very sociable and has always been rather controlling. Two weeks ago he suffered a fall resulting in him going to hospital which he hated. Last November I told him that my elder sister and I were planning on visiting my brother, who lives in Florida,. I felt that if I didn't do it now I may never do it. My husband was not interested in coming. Since then he has become more and more forgetful and often confused. He had refused to see his Doctor, so in a way, the fall and subsequent hospital stay has brought things forward. He apparently is suffering from frontal temporal lobe dementia. I'm feeling guilty that I may have brought this on but also feel that I need to have a life too! I think times are going to get quite hard and am very grateful for the friends I have who keep me going. However I believe that talking with people who are in a similar situation may be another source of comfort. I just hope I don't get too carried away with any posts I make !!!! I'm 65 and not particularly techno savvy
My husband and I have been together 30 years. He had a serious brain injury 12 years ago and our lives changed dramatically. We have rubbed along pretty well however even though I have fitted my life around him. I've been able to keep working, part time and seeing friends. He isn't very sociable and has always been rather controlling. Two weeks ago he suffered a fall resulting in him going to hospital which he hated. Last November I told him that my elder sister and I were planning on visiting my brother, who lives in Florida,. I felt that if I didn't do it now I may never do it. My husband was not interested in coming. Since then he has become more and more forgetful and often confused. He had refused to see his Doctor, so in a way, the fall and subsequent hospital stay has brought things forward. He apparently is suffering from frontal temporal lobe dementia. I'm feeling guilty that I may have brought this on but also feel that I need to have a life too! I think times are going to get quite hard and am very grateful for the friends I have who keep me going. However I believe that talking with people who are in a similar situation may be another source of comfort. I just hope I don't get too carried away with any posts I make !!!! I'm 65 and not particularly techno savvy