Hello, I have been caring for my mother-in-law on and off since November 2022. She clearly had dementia from when she started living with us but was in complete denial. It was difficult to get a diagnosis which we obtained in January this year, It is vascular dementia. She has deteriorated a lot over the past few weeks and is sad and regularly aggressive. She threatened to punch me yesterday and was up most of the night. My partner called the emergency services but no one came or responded. Just feeling oh so very tired. She developed incontinence about two and a half weeks ago and I can't get to speak to the incontinence team as all her urine samples come out with inconclusive results. Thinking of buying some tests. Are there better ones to buy?