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he wants to divorce me

chrisuz

Registered User
May 29, 2012
94
East Yorkshire
I live in sheltered housing, where my husband lived to until he went into residential care a year ago following a severe seizure. He has FTD which has not stopped him planning and scheming, but he has no concern for me at all. He was very angry a year ago, but as the year went on he busied himself in the garden, but now it is winter he can't. He has told a family friend if I won't let him back in the house, as his name is on the tenancy, he will divorce me, and revoke the LPA's so he can do exactly what he wants.
 

marionq

Registered User
Apr 24, 2013
6,035
Scotland
If he is deemed to have lost capacity I don't think he can cancel the LPA. I am surprised he remembers about it. Is the friend stirring it do you think?
 

Grannie G

Volunteer Moderator
Apr 3, 2006
70,710
Kent
I don`t think he can do exactly what he wants Chris if he doesn`t have capacity.

It`s a really dreadful situation to be in but I don`t think you need worry about being divorced, losing your home or having the LPA revoked.
 

pamann

Registered User
Oct 28, 2013
2,635
Kent
Hello chrisuz my hubby told me we are finished 6 months ago, he soon forgot about it don't worry its just the disease that is talking not your hubby, ♥♥
 

Spamar

Registered User
Oct 5, 2013
7,070
Suffolk
OH regularly decides he's going to divorce me. Next day he says how he couldn't manage without me! Take your pick!