Just been woke up and told that the freezer has been turned off. I came to check and it was ok. He has a habit of turning everything off at night, router, dementia clock. He promised not to do it but during the night when he gets up he turns everything on stand by off. I have taped the switch and the plug, he still does it and if he cannot he unplugs. The other obsession is security, checking door, taps. Everytime he wakes up, he asked me whether I have checked the door. This is driving me crazy, am fuming and losing my temper. I am a poor sleeper once awake cannot go back to sleep. After all this carry on I am throwing a tantrum as well and banged on the door. I was surprised he did not react. . I know I should be calm but it is so difficult. Am writing this post now and he went to bed and slept soundly and asked me why I am not coming to bed. He is still undiagnosed and does not think there is anything wrong. He has also got liver disease under urgent investigations. The worse is yet to come, how do you all cope warriors? Mine is just the beginning and am feeling drained. Being 75 with health and mobility issues do not help. I know I should remain calm and try to cope without upsetting him further by shouting at him and calling him names but I cannot help losing my calm. Is something wrong with me? I doubt whether he will accept medication.. Sorry for the rant, it is minor compared to some issues some carers are facing 24/7.