Hello everyone. I’ve put off asking questions because it’s just too hard to talk about. I figure typing might be easier. My grandmother has been in care for Alzheimer’s for 7 years now. That’s when the forgetfulness really started to the point she couldn’t be by herself. She was able to move around on her own in her wheelchair. The last few years she’s been pretty much bed ridden. They would put her in her wheelchair on a pretty day sometimes but within the last year she’s strictly in bed. She can move her arms and grab things pretty good. She will carry on a conversation but it’s nothing pertaining to what you’re talking about. She hasn’t recognized me in years. Total incontinence and not able to chew her food. She’s not lost or gained any weight. Not skinny at all. I don’t want this to sound like it’s going to, but I was expecting just a huge downward spiral. My other grandmother lasted maybe 2 months after a fall and quick onset. She can’t sit up. Her speech is fine just “out there”. What stage does this sound like? I know every case is different. But her weight and speech (even though it’s “out there”) makes it seem like she’s not really getting worse. She’s 84. Just trying to make some sense out of this evil disease, if that’s possible.