Hi
I posted before asking what we could do regarding care home fees before we get deputyship for my mother in law. Thanks to your suggestions, I phoned the home and they are very understanding and will wait. However, that was before the GP visited her on Tuesday to assess her and sign the COP3 form, the last thing we are waiting for before everything goes off to the Court of Protection.
However, MIL was so awful to her - angry, accusing, constantly repeating of course, giving her opinion of her, that she left there terrified of her and refusing to sign the form, not because she doesn't think she no longer has mental capacity but because she is worried she will make a complaint about her! She says we will have to get an independent assessment but has not suggested how or who and the solicitor hasn't a clue.
Has anyone come across this before and how did you overcome it?
I posted before asking what we could do regarding care home fees before we get deputyship for my mother in law. Thanks to your suggestions, I phoned the home and they are very understanding and will wait. However, that was before the GP visited her on Tuesday to assess her and sign the COP3 form, the last thing we are waiting for before everything goes off to the Court of Protection.
However, MIL was so awful to her - angry, accusing, constantly repeating of course, giving her opinion of her, that she left there terrified of her and refusing to sign the form, not because she doesn't think she no longer has mental capacity but because she is worried she will make a complaint about her! She says we will have to get an independent assessment but has not suggested how or who and the solicitor hasn't a clue.
Has anyone come across this before and how did you overcome it?