1. fizzbomb

    fizzbomb Registered User

    May 10, 2014
    47
    lancashire
    My darling mam passed away on 23rd February. Peacefully. Quickly and with my brother at her side.
    Now we have the task of putting together the funeral and. .....well everything.
    The strange thing is that for a day i could feel. I could cry. Hurt. But now Ive travelled to be with my family to help arrange things, I do not cry. I run around making arrangements. I stress over flowers, venues, ,solicitors, money, but the tears have dried up. It's as if my feelings are on hold. But then the last two years have been a bag of mixed emotions.
    Dementia. A word. But the meaning of it I'm still getting to grips with. Its so much more than a word. We lived with it and now my mam has gone we have to learn to live with what it did.
    I hope that I can. Right now I don't know how to feel.
     
  2. chick1962

    chick1962 Registered User

    Apr 3, 2014
    11,265
    Female
    near Folkestone
    Oh fizz bomb, my heart goes out to you. So sorry for the loss of your dear mum . You are probably still in shock and the preparation have taken over. Wishing you strength for the coming days . Big hugs xxxxxx


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  3. Selinacroft

    Selinacroft Registered User

    Oct 10, 2015
    937
    So sorry to read your news fizzbomb- sending you big virtual hugs at this difficult time
     
  4. Roses40

    Roses40 Registered User

    Jan 25, 2015
    473
    manchester
    Please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of your Mum x
     
  5. Izzy

    Izzy Volunteer Moderator

    Aug 31, 2003
    59,236
    Female
    Dundee
    I'm sorry for your loss Fizzbomb. Wishing you strength.
     
  6. disi

    disi Registered User

    Sorry for the loss of your lovely mum fizz bomb. Sending you and your family strength for the coming days. xxx
     
  7. reedysue

    reedysue Registered User

    Nov 4, 2014
    4,587
    Scotland
    Sending you my condolences on your loss xx.
     
  8. Sasky

    Sasky Registered User

    Jan 29, 2014
    103
    Ashford, Kent
    Sending you a virtual hug. Take all the time you need to grieve. Thinking of you at this very sad time
     
  9. Quilty

    Quilty Registered User

    Aug 28, 2014
    1,056
    GLASGOW
    So sorry fizzbomb. I think you need to allow yourself to be whatever you are in that moment. Funerals i think give closure to allow us to grieve. Sending you strength for the days ahead. You did a great job in terrible circumstances. Xx quilty
     
  10. LeedsLass

    LeedsLass Registered User

    Oct 13, 2014
    107
    Essex
    Lots of love & sympathy Fizzbomb, I was much the same last month when my lovely mum died. I still can't let myself think about it too much, just relieved she is out of that hell. Best of luck for the funeral and the next few weeks X


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  11. sonia owen

    sonia owen Registered User

    Understand

    So sorry I know jut how you are feeling I lost my mum Jan 17th. There has been so much that you just have to get on with. Hugs to you xxx
     
  12. Pickles53

    Pickles53 Registered User

    Feb 25, 2014
    2,482
    Radcliffe on Trent
    Sending my sympathy and wishing you comfort and peace.
     
  13. Scarlett123

    Scarlett123 Registered User

    Apr 30, 2013
    3,802
    Essex
    So sorry to hear of the loss of your darling Mum, and wishing you strength for the difficult days ahead. I think you go into a sort of "numb shell", when you have the funeral to arrange etc, as if your body knows you have to hold it together, whilst you get on with the necessary tasks. xxx
     
  14. stanleypj

    stanleypj Registered User

    Dec 8, 2011
    10,629
    North West
    So sorry to hear this sad news. Wishing you strength for the coming days.
     
  15. Kjn

    Kjn Registered User

    Jul 27, 2013
    5,835
    Sending strength and many condolences xxxxx
     
  16. mrs mcgonnagal

    mrs mcgonnagal Registered User

    May 9, 2015
    153
    So sorry that you have lost your mum, sending you sympathy x
     

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