Does anyone else suffer this problem? My husband has a carer for 3 hours a week and I always go out. She never has a problem with him and either goes out for a walk and a cup of tea or sits and watches tele. As soon as she leaves he is walking up and down constantly, banging the table, snapping his fingers or clapping his hands. I feel that he is trying to wind me up but I know he isn’t. Do they behave differently with different people?. It is like he is on his best behaviour when I am not around.