Doing that very thing with my 93 year ol M in Law at the moment.
Discarged from Hosp, wants to die at home ( has capasity)
Catherised- has no urine output control- ordering catheter supplies has been a nightmare.
this assessment , that assesment
Pad, bowel control has gone- again assessment after assesment of need ( and it took nearly two weeks to get the assessment, never mind another 7 days to take delivery
Carers 4 times a day,double manned still needs changing after evening call before settling down for the night. Do they make Poonami pads for small adult?
Has a stomach/bowel issue- puree diet - which she doesnt get- have what you like, but now choking etc etc
Did i mention she cant weight bear, so when the bed needs a change s well as the pad, and happens to be 20 mins after the carer has gone, worse still at 2am, and again at 3 am
Secretions causing endle fits of coughing- I know I have just sat beside the bed all night, moving pillows, hauling her up, raising the bed, lowering the bed, putting the quilt/sheet/blanket on /off because shes too hot/too cold etc etc
Palliative care nurse coming this morning- I think- someone is coming maybe the Dr? not sure, too tired to know what day of the week it is, never mind who may or may not turn up, at a time they can never specify
Just remembered, washing is in the machine, not switched it on, we'll have a nighty crisis tonigh- despite having 8 or 9 on the go
Distraced by delivering 4 year Grandaughter to nursery as I do every Monday morning
Its hard, all harder than I though