Not sure what to do.
I'm an only child. Moved back home and gave up my job as dad's aggression was off the scale. It calmed down with medication.
Have organised respite etc which mum went to with him but doesn't think it's for him. Dad can walk around all day shouting for us even thou we are there.
Meanwhile she (and me!) are getting more and more ground down. I'm at my wits end as no matter what I try and organise it's always refused. Ive tried every way to persuade mum that we need help but still she refuses.. yet at the same time I'm conscious if I leave them and move out to move on with my own life mum will have a breakdown. I've tried other people speaking to her but again It's refused.
Really do not know what to do. Any advice would be appreciated!
I'm an only child. Moved back home and gave up my job as dad's aggression was off the scale. It calmed down with medication.
Have organised respite etc which mum went to with him but doesn't think it's for him. Dad can walk around all day shouting for us even thou we are there.
Meanwhile she (and me!) are getting more and more ground down. I'm at my wits end as no matter what I try and organise it's always refused. Ive tried every way to persuade mum that we need help but still she refuses.. yet at the same time I'm conscious if I leave them and move out to move on with my own life mum will have a breakdown. I've tried other people speaking to her but again It's refused.
Really do not know what to do. Any advice would be appreciated!