Hi Folks,
Any advice on how to gently encourage someone to seek medical help for memory issues. My dad's a real concern but he and his wife are in denial anything may be wrong. They keep saying its just part of getting older but he isn't yet 70 and it seems more than normal ageing to me. He is repeating stories multiple times in the same conversation, forgetting names of people he knows well, forgetting big events that have only recently past. Can't remember what he did in a day by the evening even if it was a really eventful day. Confusing time periods etc. It was stuff you could brush off to begin with but it is now getting more and more obvious. He has also gone from a big chatty personality to stopping talking as much in conversations and sometimes seems a bit vacant. It could be other things (he is diabetic) or normal aging I suppose but it's really hard to know and I have no idea the best way to broach anything. Tried talking to his wife. At first she began to open up and say she had concerns too but is now walking it back and dismissing it all. She is a fair bit younger than him too which makes it hard for her. I know she has fears of loosing him. So tricky and worrying. How did anyone here take first steps or persuade a loved one to seek advice?
Any advice on how to gently encourage someone to seek medical help for memory issues. My dad's a real concern but he and his wife are in denial anything may be wrong. They keep saying its just part of getting older but he isn't yet 70 and it seems more than normal ageing to me. He is repeating stories multiple times in the same conversation, forgetting names of people he knows well, forgetting big events that have only recently past. Can't remember what he did in a day by the evening even if it was a really eventful day. Confusing time periods etc. It was stuff you could brush off to begin with but it is now getting more and more obvious. He has also gone from a big chatty personality to stopping talking as much in conversations and sometimes seems a bit vacant. It could be other things (he is diabetic) or normal aging I suppose but it's really hard to know and I have no idea the best way to broach anything. Tried talking to his wife. At first she began to open up and say she had concerns too but is now walking it back and dismissing it all. She is a fair bit younger than him too which makes it hard for her. I know she has fears of loosing him. So tricky and worrying. How did anyone here take first steps or persuade a loved one to seek advice?