First proper visit to see mum :-)

Discussion in 'ARCHIVE FORUM: Support discussions' started by Shakey1961a, Oct 1, 2005.

  1. Shakey1961a

    Shakey1961a Registered User

    Nov 7, 2004
    111
    Southport
    Hi All.

    Visited Mum this lunchtime for an hour!!!! She was sitting up in a chair very well and I gave her her meal which went down rather fast. She smiled and had a few giggles and was pulling herself forward so she's got some strength there.

    It was just a lovely hour and I'm off to see here again soon.

    Bliss
     
  2. KarenC

    KarenC Registered User

    Jun 2, 2005
    122
    Los Angeles, USA
    Splendid! Thanks for sharing the good news. :D

    Karen
     
  3. connie

    connie Registered User

    Mar 7, 2004
    9,519
    Frinton-on-Sea
    So happy for you. Keep up the good work, love Connie
     
  4. Sheila

    Sheila Registered User

    Oct 23, 2003
    2,259
    West Sussex
    Lovely, so happy for you both, love She. XX :)
     
  5. Shakey1961a

    Shakey1961a Registered User

    Nov 7, 2004
    111
    Southport
    I attempted to see mum for a second time yesterday and this guy stopped me and said to sign the visitors book, which I do eveytime now anyway. He said he'd get someone to escort me up to see mum.

    I said it had been ok for me to go up at lunchtime on my own. He replied that he was in the kitchen then and hadn't seen me and that HE was not going to let ME walk around this home unaccompanied!!!!!

    This guy has no manegement skills and is just a general workman. Not even a career. Who the hell does he think he's speaking to!!!!

    So that made me angry. Still I have made a note of it and will be passing it to the CSCI in due course.

    Found Mum a place at another BETTER home!!!!
     
  6. Sheila

    Sheila Registered User

    Oct 23, 2003
    2,259
    West Sussex
    Hi Shakey, just keep your cool love, you have been found not guilty, thats what matters. Sticks and stones etc. Time will be a great healer, what is foremost in the public eye is forgotton tomorrow. Soon you will just be boring old news. Let it go, you've found a better home, now is the time to move forward not dwell on the past and people with small minds who don't know the true story. Love She. XX
     
  7. KarenC

    KarenC Registered User

    Jun 2, 2005
    122
    Los Angeles, USA
    Definitely sounds like a good time to move your mum to a new home; that's great you've found someplace better! I hope that helps you enjoy your time with her when you visit without this cloud of suspicion and animosity that infects the atmosphere at the current place.

    Karen
     

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