Hi, my (24) mom (57) was diagnosed with mild cognitive impairment last year. We expected it to be dementia due to her symptoms (forgetfulness, getting confused following simple instructions and finding it difficult to talk and communicate) and felt like we had hit a brick wall with what happens next. It felt like the doctors were like ‘theres your diagnosis, over to you’ and we didnt know where to turn or why this was happening.
We have been trying anything we can to improve her symptoms even going private to a menopause specialist to see if hormone deficiency was the cause. I’ve got her every vitamin and supplement under the sun and shes been on HRT for 2 months now and no improvement so I’m now just looking for advice on how to cope with decline even though it hurts to give up on the hope of her condition improving.
In particular I find it difficult being away from her because I worry. I am just starting out in my career after university and enjoy my job but finding it difficult to focus on anything due to anxiety. My mom is my best friend and I’m really worried about the future. My Dad is in the picture too but is having to work hard since mom is unable to work and the situation is clearly putting a strain on their relationship- she struggles to follow even basic conversation . I feel like I have to be the one there for her as a result of this to try and keep her spirits high.
Any advice would be very much appreciated
We have been trying anything we can to improve her symptoms even going private to a menopause specialist to see if hormone deficiency was the cause. I’ve got her every vitamin and supplement under the sun and shes been on HRT for 2 months now and no improvement so I’m now just looking for advice on how to cope with decline even though it hurts to give up on the hope of her condition improving.
In particular I find it difficult being away from her because I worry. I am just starting out in my career after university and enjoy my job but finding it difficult to focus on anything due to anxiety. My mom is my best friend and I’m really worried about the future. My Dad is in the picture too but is having to work hard since mom is unable to work and the situation is clearly putting a strain on their relationship- she struggles to follow even basic conversation . I feel like I have to be the one there for her as a result of this to try and keep her spirits high.
Any advice would be very much appreciated