I feel pretty low at the moment having just been to see Mum in her CH. She seems to have settled reasonably but when she sees us she is sad because she just wants to be with us. It is hard when she is with others who are much worse than she is (not all of them but two this morning were very distressed and despite the carers best efforts, remained so which upset everyone else). I would have brought her home in an instant if I could get away with it. Now I am at home on my own for the rest of the day with plenty of time to think about it. She, however, has carol singers in this afternoon so will probably feel more festive than I. You’re not the only one who has to toughen up
@Kingsbridge
Tomorrow, though, I shall be picking her up and taking her to my brother’s for Christmas dinner and a few pressies. It will be her first time out of the home since she got there six weeks ago. When I take her back around 3, I will stay with her for an hour to acclimatise. If it goes reasonably well, the CH senior care manager has said we should take her out now and then for some variety. That will be the best Christmas present I could have.
Wishing everyone a Merry Christmas, where ever and how ever you may be spending it.