Hi
Put my Mum in a care home yesterday for respite/assessment she had been to visit and liked the place but when I left she looked really sad and wanted to see me off but they made her stand inside. Have been worried sick and crying all night feel a wreck this morning, will ring in a while to see if she is ok. I really didn't want this for her wanted GP to give her something to help with delusions/halucinations but he said he thought care home would be better option, next thing I knew SS on phone agreed to her going for 2 weeks for assessment asked when this would be done given the date and time but told I didn't need to be there. Also had call from MH nurse who will be seeing her in a weeks time again told I don't need to be there
What I wanted to ask is what do they do on an assessment and does anyone who has had someone assessed think I should be there?
Thing is I don't want her in a home if not needed as still able to do things herself not incontinent only problem was she was convinced someone was getting into her flat and had told her she had to leave and she was getting very upset over this and packed up loads of bags.
Sorry if this is a bit rambling.
Put my Mum in a care home yesterday for respite/assessment she had been to visit and liked the place but when I left she looked really sad and wanted to see me off but they made her stand inside. Have been worried sick and crying all night feel a wreck this morning, will ring in a while to see if she is ok. I really didn't want this for her wanted GP to give her something to help with delusions/halucinations but he said he thought care home would be better option, next thing I knew SS on phone agreed to her going for 2 weeks for assessment asked when this would be done given the date and time but told I didn't need to be there. Also had call from MH nurse who will be seeing her in a weeks time again told I don't need to be there
What I wanted to ask is what do they do on an assessment and does anyone who has had someone assessed think I should be there?
Thing is I don't want her in a home if not needed as still able to do things herself not incontinent only problem was she was convinced someone was getting into her flat and had told her she had to leave and she was getting very upset over this and packed up loads of bags.
Sorry if this is a bit rambling.