Hi, I'm new to TP. My hubby is in the early stages of dementia and is only 66, I am a bit younger than him. He seems to have accepted his diagnosis quite easily - he has always been a very easy going and laid-back person. I am finding it quite a struggle at the moment as I feel I have become "the husband" as well as the wife, and at times now feel more like "his mother"! Mainly because he has lost confidence in himself and can no longer do jobs around the house, but then just leaves it to me to sort out - either by doing it myself or getting someone in. I want him to be angry and fight a bit - not with me but with the illness! But instead I fill my days reminding him to do the things he needs to do and repeating myself. Usually I have ups and downs but at the moment I have been on a down for around 3/4 weeks! I am so miserable. What should have been a lovely retirement for us both has been snatched away for me to be left watching the man I love fade away! Sorry to go on so much!