I often wonder if mum "settled" reasonably quickly in her care home because she knew deep down inside I was at breaking point.
She used to talk about me moving near her and we could perhaps buy a pair of semi detached - she would have one house, me the other.
It's taken nearly a year, but Now she asks if I'm moving yet. And when I say not yet, she said, that's alright I quite like it here. I wonder how long I can stay
Another time she asked me if minded if she stayed where she was when I moved but she would come to stay with me for visits.
There again..... Another time she got angry because I hadn't sold my house yet - maybe it's because she wanted to come and visit?
Sounds like, hard as it would be for you, it's time for him to stay permanently. xxxxx
She used to talk about me moving near her and we could perhaps buy a pair of semi detached - she would have one house, me the other.
It's taken nearly a year, but Now she asks if I'm moving yet. And when I say not yet, she said, that's alright I quite like it here. I wonder how long I can stay
Another time she asked me if minded if she stayed where she was when I moved but she would come to stay with me for visits.
There again..... Another time she got angry because I hadn't sold my house yet - maybe it's because she wanted to come and visit?
Sounds like, hard as it would be for you, it's time for him to stay permanently. xxxxx