Hello everyone, I'm new to this site so my first post. My nannan has had Alzheimer's for going on 2 years now and it is the hardest thing ever. I'm only 22 and my nannan has been my best friend since I can remember.
Anyway getting to the point, my nannans friend/partner lives with/cares for her. It's my nannans family home she shared with my grandad who sadly passed away before I was born. I take my hat off to my nannans partner as I know it must be difficult to be a full time Carer but he really gets snappy with my nan and shouts at her, which is making my nans condition worse. He has made comments recently about not being able to cope and having to look at other options but made comments that we can't kick him out. My mum would never kick him out and leave him in the lurch but the stress of this issue is really getting to me. This man has been good enough as a grandad to me but I don't like the way he has started to treat my nan and I believe she deserves better care but I don't know what is best. I love her so much and I cry every day. I think I might be depressed. I just need advice
Anyway getting to the point, my nannans friend/partner lives with/cares for her. It's my nannans family home she shared with my grandad who sadly passed away before I was born. I take my hat off to my nannans partner as I know it must be difficult to be a full time Carer but he really gets snappy with my nan and shouts at her, which is making my nans condition worse. He has made comments recently about not being able to cope and having to look at other options but made comments that we can't kick him out. My mum would never kick him out and leave him in the lurch but the stress of this issue is really getting to me. This man has been good enough as a grandad to me but I don't like the way he has started to treat my nan and I believe she deserves better care but I don't know what is best. I love her so much and I cry every day. I think I might be depressed. I just need advice