Hello I'm new to the site and this is my first post so forgive me if this has been asked previously.
My Dad was diagnosed with Vascular Dementia last year. He is currently at the very forgetful stage for example what he had lunch, what he's been doing that day.
My Mom cares for him and most of the time things are fine. However, his bank card is a major issue. My Mom would take care of it for him due to him misplacing and losing things but, once every couple of weeks he starts demanding the card from her. He states it's his card and his money and he wants the card. He would get nasty towards my Mom, not violent, and then would get upset, quiet and down until he forgets about it. This is starting to happen more regularly. I would chat with him and try and explain why Mom is keeping the card safe (he was nearly scammed last year on-line and he has left the card in cash machines and in shops when paying for goods).
I wondered if anyone else has had this problem?
I had thought about getting him a fake bank card, but then there is an issue when he does go to the bank to withdraw cash. My Mom would be with him, but she would need to switch the cards.
Any help would be appreciated.
My Dad was diagnosed with Vascular Dementia last year. He is currently at the very forgetful stage for example what he had lunch, what he's been doing that day.
My Mom cares for him and most of the time things are fine. However, his bank card is a major issue. My Mom would take care of it for him due to him misplacing and losing things but, once every couple of weeks he starts demanding the card from her. He states it's his card and his money and he wants the card. He would get nasty towards my Mom, not violent, and then would get upset, quiet and down until he forgets about it. This is starting to happen more regularly. I would chat with him and try and explain why Mom is keeping the card safe (he was nearly scammed last year on-line and he has left the card in cash machines and in shops when paying for goods).
I wondered if anyone else has had this problem?
I had thought about getting him a fake bank card, but then there is an issue when he does go to the bank to withdraw cash. My Mom would be with him, but she would need to switch the cards.
Any help would be appreciated.