One of the facts that has stuck with me since my mother's death over a year ago is how little she talked about her early life and how little i know about it. My sister and I are still living in the family home and due to go our separate ways soon, so we still have all the family papers in one big metal box.
One of the things i mentioned to my counselor was the idea of looking into our family history, especially my mum's because we know the least about hers and whilst we still have the family documents in one place I've decided to scan some of them for later reference. What preys on my mind is what i may find, even the simple things. My mother's brother was a bachelor and lived and worked in Bath. So i thought i may visit, pay my respects and see if the shop he worked in still exists. or should i just have a day out to pay my respects. Its very tempting to see what is there and if the shop is whether it is still run by the descendants of the original owners.
I've just had a bit of a tearful morning thinking about this but I've calmed down now and i'm wondering how to approach the whole matter before i even start especially dealing with the emotional side of things.
Has any one done this that can offer some advice to me before i start ?
One of the things i mentioned to my counselor was the idea of looking into our family history, especially my mum's because we know the least about hers and whilst we still have the family documents in one place I've decided to scan some of them for later reference. What preys on my mind is what i may find, even the simple things. My mother's brother was a bachelor and lived and worked in Bath. So i thought i may visit, pay my respects and see if the shop he worked in still exists. or should i just have a day out to pay my respects. Its very tempting to see what is there and if the shop is whether it is still run by the descendants of the original owners.
I've just had a bit of a tearful morning thinking about this but I've calmed down now and i'm wondering how to approach the whole matter before i even start especially dealing with the emotional side of things.
Has any one done this that can offer some advice to me before i start ?