For the first time in her life our Mum has says that she is in love. She has some vascular dementia from a stroke and some Alzheimers. She has found a boyfriend at her care home who is only in his mid 70's and all they want is to be together. However, it seems that the care home can't cope with the 'disinhibition' and their behaviour - quite heavy 'petting' is disturbing to them. The doctor has said that my Mum has not got capacity and therefore is vulnerable to abuse consequently her boyfriend is having to leave to go somewhere where they might be able to cope better with his amorous behaviour. The home tries to keep them apart but often has to give in. She is utterly miserable and anxious without him. Our Mum broke her hip in a fall three weeks ago but is recovering well and came out for lunch this week with the boyfriend and the boyfriend's daughter who is at her wits end worrying about where he will go as they want him to leave 'now'. They will not let them be alone together although my Mum keeps wanting him to come back to her room. Does anyone know if it is possible to pay extra for someone to keep an eye on them
Has this sort of thing happened to anyone else??
Has this sort of thing happened to anyone else??