My mum hasn't been officially diagnosed yet but I have been told unofficially to expect a diagnosis of "advanced dementia." We're not due back at the memory clinic until the end of November but things have continued to deteriorate quickly and I think we may need more support before then.
Tonight I got a phone call from my sister saying the Carer's had rung - no lights on (it was about 9.30pm), no TV on and no sign of mum and she wasn't answering the door or phone. I then found out that one of the neighbours had contacted my sister last week to say my mum had been wandering around the street in just her slippers. Anyway, to cut a long story short, following the police being called out, they have found mum - hiding behind a door in the house. No idea how long she had been there and she just told me on the phone that it's morning and it's time to get up now (I'm writing this at 11.25pm).
So, my sister and I are now thinking what next. She has carers four times a day which I think is the maximum. I see on here there's a lot of talk about the fees of nursing homes but I wondered if there were any other options? What are the kinds of costs of getting people to live or semi live with her? If we can keep her in her home I think that is preferable but first and foremost we want her to be safe.
I'm expecting to spend many hours tomorrow on the phone trying to find out what help we can get. I'm thinking of ringing the Memory Clinic to let them know of the latest developments and see if they can bring forward the appointment at all.
Thanks in advance
Tonight I got a phone call from my sister saying the Carer's had rung - no lights on (it was about 9.30pm), no TV on and no sign of mum and she wasn't answering the door or phone. I then found out that one of the neighbours had contacted my sister last week to say my mum had been wandering around the street in just her slippers. Anyway, to cut a long story short, following the police being called out, they have found mum - hiding behind a door in the house. No idea how long she had been there and she just told me on the phone that it's morning and it's time to get up now (I'm writing this at 11.25pm).
So, my sister and I are now thinking what next. She has carers four times a day which I think is the maximum. I see on here there's a lot of talk about the fees of nursing homes but I wondered if there were any other options? What are the kinds of costs of getting people to live or semi live with her? If we can keep her in her home I think that is preferable but first and foremost we want her to be safe.
I'm expecting to spend many hours tomorrow on the phone trying to find out what help we can get. I'm thinking of ringing the Memory Clinic to let them know of the latest developments and see if they can bring forward the appointment at all.
Thanks in advance