Hello with my husbands help we are caring for my 83 year old sister in law. We live 60 miles away but are visiting 3 times a week to keep her safe and to check she is eating. Also to take her to appointments. We are exhausted. As yet no diagnosis. She has told social services she is fine and can look after herself so they say no action necessary. Daily she loses keys and thinks her phone is broken. There are papers everywhere and the house is very cluttered and untidy. How do we get any help to keep her safe?