I know I'm probably posting in the wrong thread but I'm simply at the end of my tether. My husband is getting really hard to live with. He hides things, turns things off when they should be on. Leaves taps on and moves stuff like the shower head that is now only working one side. Who do I call for that? He lies and lies and lies. I look after him I really do but when I point something out I hear him cursing me and calling me names. I want to explain to the children and they are lovely children but it's obvious that they feel their own lives are busy and complicated. I hate it and I'm full of anxiety. I don't like the expressions he makes. Sometimes flashing eyes and sometimes play acting and not really feeling any empathy at all.
Myself I've started to suffer from health anxiety. Everything a doctor says or a test a bit iffy I'm so frightened with nobody to turn to.
I know it can't get better but I see an article about dementia and I think if he did something like reading or puzzles things could get better. It's just hope over a really awful time in my life. I think some of my anxiety about health is because I'm afraid worse things are going to come crashing down on me and I wont be able to cope anymore. I'm so sorry to keep going on and I do read some of your posts and sense your bravery.
Myself I've started to suffer from health anxiety. Everything a doctor says or a test a bit iffy I'm so frightened with nobody to turn to.
I know it can't get better but I see an article about dementia and I think if he did something like reading or puzzles things could get better. It's just hope over a really awful time in my life. I think some of my anxiety about health is because I'm afraid worse things are going to come crashing down on me and I wont be able to cope anymore. I'm so sorry to keep going on and I do read some of your posts and sense your bravery.