Hi all
I've been reading posts on this site for a while now and just wanted to say what a wonderful kind community you all are. Although every persons situation is incredibly sad and difficult there is such tenacity to get things right, humour and kindness amongst you all.
My mum was diagnosed with vascular dementia about 3 years ago but had been suffering for some time before that. We are incredibly lucky there are 3 of us (sisters) who are all local. So between us we have managed over the last few years.
After a dreadful fall late last year and a worsening in her dementia we had to make the decision for mum to live in a local nursing home. They are really great with her.
She had a leg wound (from another fall) that was treated in A&E a few weeks ago and then discharged. Within a week she was in hospital with Covid and community acquired Pneumonia along with a UTI and urinary retention. I know from this site this is very common.
She's had 5 days of antibiotics and has been discharged back to the home. She has deteriorated massively over the last few weeks. She sleeps most of the time but with help can walk and sit in the lounge. Not particularly interested in food or drink. She is still catheterized and is no longer on antibiotics.
The reason I'm finally typing on here is that I really don't know if this is the end and why am I scared to ask what the next few weeks will bring? It's so very painful to watch her fade and feel so uncomfortable. I think my fear is that this is the beginning of a phase of hospital admissions. I don't want her to go through that. Thanks for listening x
I've been reading posts on this site for a while now and just wanted to say what a wonderful kind community you all are. Although every persons situation is incredibly sad and difficult there is such tenacity to get things right, humour and kindness amongst you all.
My mum was diagnosed with vascular dementia about 3 years ago but had been suffering for some time before that. We are incredibly lucky there are 3 of us (sisters) who are all local. So between us we have managed over the last few years.
After a dreadful fall late last year and a worsening in her dementia we had to make the decision for mum to live in a local nursing home. They are really great with her.
She had a leg wound (from another fall) that was treated in A&E a few weeks ago and then discharged. Within a week she was in hospital with Covid and community acquired Pneumonia along with a UTI and urinary retention. I know from this site this is very common.
She's had 5 days of antibiotics and has been discharged back to the home. She has deteriorated massively over the last few weeks. She sleeps most of the time but with help can walk and sit in the lounge. Not particularly interested in food or drink. She is still catheterized and is no longer on antibiotics.
The reason I'm finally typing on here is that I really don't know if this is the end and why am I scared to ask what the next few weeks will bring? It's so very painful to watch her fade and feel so uncomfortable. I think my fear is that this is the beginning of a phase of hospital admissions. I don't want her to go through that. Thanks for listening x