...and here we are too, another husband and wife facing the big driving dilemma! After much drama, my husband is going to aDVLA assessment centre next week! Very luckily, a chap we know not very well has kindly offered to take him...what a saint! If it had been with me, I'd have been blamed for the loss of licence. I will anyway, because he's not driving after advice from the GP, and is indignant because he's got out of practice..Catch 22!
I'm the driver now, and my husband can't bear it; I can do nothing right and he makes me jittery and nervous. So if and when he has to give up his licence, I don't think we'll be going far, because no one can drive safely with an angry and controlling passenger.
This must be the biggest blow for someone with Dementia. And their family.
Just made the mistake of sharing this thread with OH, who has just bitten my head off, chewed it round a bit and spat it out with the retort "You just don't get it - it's all the horizons closing down which is so awful". I know its the FTD, but I've forgotten what a horizon is, never mind seeing one. My life is shrinking too. X