There's no one straight answer as to how people respond to any medication, penicillin has save many millions of lives since it was discovered, however, the first time it was prescribed for our (then very young child) he ended up spending weeks in intensive care as he had a severe allergy to it. Same goes for food products, some people can't do; gluten, dairy, shellfish and the big one nuts, most people don't have an issue with them but they aren't good for everyone.
Donepezil (and yes, you did spell it correctly) is widely prescribed and generally well tolerated and can slow down the progress of the disease in something between 40 and 70% of people but that's all it may do, slow down the progress it can't improve the condition or reverse it.
What you're describing sound like adverse side effects and so I would report them to her GP/memory clinic and get their opinion.
Donepezil and a number of similar drugs were withdrawn for prescription in France this summer as the French government's medical people decided that the side effects outweighed the benefits and withdrew financing them on prescription so they place little faith in that type of medication, who knows possibly this country may follow suit.
It is worth asking the GP as if her quality of life is better without the medication then it may be better to stop it, also the bowel problem may need looking at in case it is a separate not related condition which may be treatable.
It's pretty common (so the nurses at the home tell me) for people on Donepezil not to tolerate cream, not dairy just very rich cream desserts, my wife has issues and since they put her on the no cream list and no eggs either it hasn't happened since, fingers crossed it works.
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