My father was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s in 2014, he had been pretty stable until these last couple of months. Two weeks ago I went to his house to do his cleaning and let myself in like I normally would. He came at me shouting ‘**** off **** off who are you?!?!’ My dad never swears so I was very shocked and upset and left the house. My husband went in to. See if he could calm him down and he got kicked and had his glasses broken by my dad.
He has really taken a turn for the worse and is refusing to see me or talk to me. When I have been round since he’s been yelling at me that I did something illegal so he doesn’t want to know me anymore.
In this time the vultures have started circling and my cousin has appointed herself as his carer. She changed the locks on his house so I can’t get in anymore. I keep trying to go round there but they are verbally abusive to me telling me I need to leave my dad alone that he doesn’t want to see me.
I spoke to his GP who insists he needs an urgent medical assessment. I sent an ambulance round there in the hope he would get checked over but he turned them away and refused care. I have tried speaking to social services but they aren’t doing anything. It’s all very overwhelming and I don’t know where to turn. I just want to make sure my dad isn’t really unwell (water infection possibly?) and that they aren’t robbing him blind. Any advice would be really welcome.
He has really taken a turn for the worse and is refusing to see me or talk to me. When I have been round since he’s been yelling at me that I did something illegal so he doesn’t want to know me anymore.
In this time the vultures have started circling and my cousin has appointed herself as his carer. She changed the locks on his house so I can’t get in anymore. I keep trying to go round there but they are verbally abusive to me telling me I need to leave my dad alone that he doesn’t want to see me.
I spoke to his GP who insists he needs an urgent medical assessment. I sent an ambulance round there in the hope he would get checked over but he turned them away and refused care. I have tried speaking to social services but they aren’t doing anything. It’s all very overwhelming and I don’t know where to turn. I just want to make sure my dad isn’t really unwell (water infection possibly?) and that they aren’t robbing him blind. Any advice would be really welcome.