So my mum was put into a care home after carer breakdown. My brother was unable to cope and I have not been able to manage my mum alone. The social worker decided she would be best in a care home. A bed came up in a lovely home however the residents in the dementia unit are a bit further on their dementia journey than mum. Mum is 58 and this place us for younger people with dementia. I am awaiting for mums respite to become permanent however the social worker is off sick and trying to find out what is happening is near impossible. A Dols meeting has took place where I was present. I stayed quiet so mum could answer. Mum has said on a few occasions she wants to go home but also said she likes the care home. (There is one resident who is quite aggressive and shouts get out of my house which is when mum Says she wants to go home but has apparently said on other occasions. I wasn't aware of this.)
I was a bit upset as the dols assessor said this would be temporary, and she feels mum needs an independent advocate for her. She agreed mum had limited capacity, but upon reflection, I'm thinking why wasn't I appointed RPR. Do they not trust me with the decisions? Has anybody else had this? The social worker talks about it may having to go to court.
But mum Is looked after, I take her out once a week and can spend quality time with her.
I was a bit upset as the dols assessor said this would be temporary, and she feels mum needs an independent advocate for her. She agreed mum had limited capacity, but upon reflection, I'm thinking why wasn't I appointed RPR. Do they not trust me with the decisions? Has anybody else had this? The social worker talks about it may having to go to court.
But mum Is looked after, I take her out once a week and can spend quality time with her.