It can be hard to discuss matters with my autistic husband as he finds the current situation distressing. But it turns out that he does have some kind of Power of Attorney with his mum. I'm not sure how long ago it was made though I assume that regardless of his autism diagnosis (maybe this occurred after power of attorney was sorted out) he would be judged to have capacity to make decisions still.
I'm not sure yet if it's financial or health or both. I'm wondering if my husband has the right to insist on things like help with his mum washing herself to prevent infections etc. At the moment I'm not sure that my mother in law is changing clothes and washing herself.
I understand that these things are called Lasting Power of Attorney now and I don't know if they ever need reviewing too.
It's all so much happening at once!
I'm not sure yet if it's financial or health or both. I'm wondering if my husband has the right to insist on things like help with his mum washing herself to prevent infections etc. At the moment I'm not sure that my mother in law is changing clothes and washing herself.
I understand that these things are called Lasting Power of Attorney now and I don't know if they ever need reviewing too.
It's all so much happening at once!