Hello,
I'm really concerned about my mum who is 70 years old. She lives abroad with my stepdad so I don't see her as often as I would like to. In June 2016 she was involved in a car crash and my step father is saying that before the crash she had a test and they said that she 'might' have early onset of dementia. She had the crash and when I went to see her 6 months ago I noticed a massive change in her. I would ask her a question like 'where's the vacuum cleaner' or 'what time are we leaving to go to such and such' and she would very quickly respond ' i don't know, ask your dad' this was the answer she came out with to almost every question I asked her. My dad came across to the UK a couple of months later alone and I spoke with him about my concerns, He says it's all related to the trauma following the accident. I found out that while he was here she had spent most of the week without TV as she couldn't remember how to work the remote control and she turned up for bingo on the wrong day. She came over to see me a couple of weeks ago. Unfortunately her cabin bag didn't make it onto the flight, She blamed the airline but I think she simply forgot it and it was left in the departure lounge. I was horrified at the decline in her memory. She thought she'd lost her Kindle, she hadn't, she didn't bring it with her. On day two she said we needed to go shopping for underwear, completely forgetting that we had bought some the day before. What I did notice is she's perfectly capable of spending money on clothes in M&S! But when we got home she kept picking up the two pairs of trousers and folding them up, unfolding them and re-folding them repeatedly. She also repeatedly took her passport out of her handbag and would flick through the pages. As we had to get her replacement medication I noticed that none of the tablets are to treat this disease. I've spoken with my step father and he is adamant that her memory loss is due to the accident and has no plans to have her re-tested for a formal diagnosis. They are both back in the UK early next year. I really want her to be tested - how can I talk my dad round to agreeing for the need for the test?
I'm really concerned about my mum who is 70 years old. She lives abroad with my stepdad so I don't see her as often as I would like to. In June 2016 she was involved in a car crash and my step father is saying that before the crash she had a test and they said that she 'might' have early onset of dementia. She had the crash and when I went to see her 6 months ago I noticed a massive change in her. I would ask her a question like 'where's the vacuum cleaner' or 'what time are we leaving to go to such and such' and she would very quickly respond ' i don't know, ask your dad' this was the answer she came out with to almost every question I asked her. My dad came across to the UK a couple of months later alone and I spoke with him about my concerns, He says it's all related to the trauma following the accident. I found out that while he was here she had spent most of the week without TV as she couldn't remember how to work the remote control and she turned up for bingo on the wrong day. She came over to see me a couple of weeks ago. Unfortunately her cabin bag didn't make it onto the flight, She blamed the airline but I think she simply forgot it and it was left in the departure lounge. I was horrified at the decline in her memory. She thought she'd lost her Kindle, she hadn't, she didn't bring it with her. On day two she said we needed to go shopping for underwear, completely forgetting that we had bought some the day before. What I did notice is she's perfectly capable of spending money on clothes in M&S! But when we got home she kept picking up the two pairs of trousers and folding them up, unfolding them and re-folding them repeatedly. She also repeatedly took her passport out of her handbag and would flick through the pages. As we had to get her replacement medication I noticed that none of the tablets are to treat this disease. I've spoken with my step father and he is adamant that her memory loss is due to the accident and has no plans to have her re-tested for a formal diagnosis. They are both back in the UK early next year. I really want her to be tested - how can I talk my dad round to agreeing for the need for the test?