Today has been really tough, at the start of the week the GP called to say mum had a temperature and possibly an infection again. After a long discussion with the GP we decided to say no to antibiotics and to keep mum comfortable and see what happened. They have delivered an end of life medication pack just in case but mum seems to be doing as ok as she can, she's still nibbling food and drinking small levels of fluids, the care home staff and trying to get her up and out in the mornings too. But tonight I went to see mum and and it felt as though she knew she was unwell, her speech has been getting worse recently but she kept saying I don't want to go over and over, I got very upset and she did too and at one point it felt as though she understood me and who I was and I kept telling her I loved her and how wonderful she was as my mum and showed her some photos of wonderful memories. It was just such a strange feeling and I'm probably thinking too much about it, but if she does go soon then I really feel as though she heard me tell her I love her. At one point for a few minutes she was so like my old mum that I was so shocked at everything that has happened for the last 2 years, almost as if it had all been a horrible dream.