Hi all
My mother is 100 and lived independently till 3 weeks ago when everything turned on its head. I moved her in with me ( I live 60 miles away) and it's become very evident that she cannot go back to being independent or we would be back very quickly to square one. After 3 weeks of care she thinks she's ok to go back home.and keeps asking me when can I take her. She forgets any conversations we have so my problem is do I take her home for a week with me staying with her so she can see her home is still there, or would I be making matters worse when I have to bring her back to mine. She would never have a carer and I'm happy to take care of her in my home. I can't stay away long as I have a daughter who needs my support with a medical condition she is facing.
My mother is 100 and lived independently till 3 weeks ago when everything turned on its head. I moved her in with me ( I live 60 miles away) and it's become very evident that she cannot go back to being independent or we would be back very quickly to square one. After 3 weeks of care she thinks she's ok to go back home.and keeps asking me when can I take her. She forgets any conversations we have so my problem is do I take her home for a week with me staying with her so she can see her home is still there, or would I be making matters worse when I have to bring her back to mine. She would never have a carer and I'm happy to take care of her in my home. I can't stay away long as I have a daughter who needs my support with a medical condition she is facing.