Hi I’m Veronica. My dad was diagnosed with early onset dementia 3 years ago at the age of 60 and the past year it’s seemed to rapidly progress. Because of my dad’s age, it has been hard for my family to accept his diagnosis. I live in a different city than my dad who lives with my stepmum. She is doing the best she can but is still in denial of his condition. I feel like I’m a broken record trying to advocate for his care. I fear encouraging him and stepmum to move into an independent living facility together would not go well because of how young they are, but it’s clear that his current care or lack there of isn’t working. I’m debating figuring out if they should move in with me and my family. I have a husband and a 3 yo daughter. I think being around family would be nice for him and we’d maybe get a couple good years together. I know it’d be a lot of work but I feel like I’m having to worry and do so much already, maybe having him closer will make certain things easier. But I’ve also been reading that they’ll most likely end up in a care facility and the less moves the better. They just recently moved and downsized because he wasn’t doing well there and we’re still dealing with his struggle with that move. I also have a career that forces me to travel for long periods of time, so I know that at a certain point I wouldn’t be able to be the full time caregiver and would have to hire someone to come help which I’ve heard is very expensive. I want to do what’s best for my dad and help give him the best quality of life possible. I feel like I’d be more confident if he was in his 70s or 80s but his young age is really complicating things. He’s aware of his condition and is very opinionated and hides what’s going on well, but it’s clear that the disease is progressing and he needs daily care. I just feel so lost. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. 🙏🏽