I've just moved back in with mum and dad and in the last few weeks have seen the signs that mum is having difficulty with the loo. I've found soiled tissue paper in the bathroom (on the bath rack, on the radiator), in the kitchen bin (not too bad !?) and she seems to have used a face cloth and towel appear to clean herself on occassion too. I'm also a bit worried that she may be using her hands to some extent as there are smudges on the sink,taps, walls etc. I've heard that as things progress, constipation can cause problems as the sufferer uses their fingers to 'help things move'. I've had a chat with dad who hadn't noticed these things (he is 90), mum would question someone coming to the look with her so nt sure what the answer is? If anyone has any tips I'd be very grateful !