Hey, I'm new, so ill introduce myself a little! I'm 22 and my dad is 63 and has Alzheimer's. I've kind of been thrown into being his carer as my mum passed away very unexpectantly last year. As I still live at home with my 2 useless brothers, I seem to have stepped into the mother role in the house, even after telling everyone I didn't want to! Dad got diagnosed about 2 years ago now, didn't think much of it when he was cos i knew mum would always be there to look after him, but now it seems its my job! The thing is I work full time, to keep the house going as for some reason we're not entitled to may benifits despite having no money! With my brothers also either working evening or daytime, dad is left on his own a lot and I always worry about him. He's not that bad yet, as he looks after our 2 dogs still as after mum died they seem to be his life, he still pops to the shops on his own and can still remember his own PIN number! The thing I'm most worried about is the future. I have an understanding on how this horrible disease is going to take over his life but I'm not sure how I'm going to be able to handle his care. Still being young and after speaking to him we've all decided that I won't quit my job to be his full time carer, as this is something both he and mum wouldn't of wanted. But I have no idea of how to go about getting care for him. He says he doesn't want to go into a care home which I respect but what other help is there? Also what is it like for cost? As its only my wages that is keeping the house afloat at the mo, I can't afford to run 2 house and care! Sorry if I have waffled on, but I am getting extremely run down at the mo. any help is much appreciated
Sarah xx
Sarah xx