Hello, I hope that someone can advise.
My mum was diagnosed with Alzheimers last year. She lives at home with my dad who she no longer recognises, and she is always asking to go home as she does not recognise where she lives as being "Home". I live over 300 miles away but my middle sister decided to move down to be there as a support. Her and my dad have always had a difficult relationship and often argue and fall out. When my sister first moved down she became accusatory towards my dad stating that he was not fit to look after my mum. She took it upon herself to contact my mums GP surgery to make herself named as first point of contact. I told her that she did not have the right to do this and my dad has now amended this. I have been supporting my dad with practical advice and buying things like larger clocks and calendars and white boards for messages etc. Long story short, my sister has not been consistent in her offers of support to my mum and she has continued to try and intervene in my dad's caring role. He has now told her that she is no longer allowed in the house to visit my mum. She has reported this to social services and they are arranging meeting. I have suggested that whilst my dad has the right to keep my sister from entering his house, my mum still has the right to see my sister. I have suggested that maybe my sister can arrange the dates that she will visit and she can take my mum out instead. Has anyone else had similar issues??
My mum was diagnosed with Alzheimers last year. She lives at home with my dad who she no longer recognises, and she is always asking to go home as she does not recognise where she lives as being "Home". I live over 300 miles away but my middle sister decided to move down to be there as a support. Her and my dad have always had a difficult relationship and often argue and fall out. When my sister first moved down she became accusatory towards my dad stating that he was not fit to look after my mum. She took it upon herself to contact my mums GP surgery to make herself named as first point of contact. I told her that she did not have the right to do this and my dad has now amended this. I have been supporting my dad with practical advice and buying things like larger clocks and calendars and white boards for messages etc. Long story short, my sister has not been consistent in her offers of support to my mum and she has continued to try and intervene in my dad's caring role. He has now told her that she is no longer allowed in the house to visit my mum. She has reported this to social services and they are arranging meeting. I have suggested that whilst my dad has the right to keep my sister from entering his house, my mum still has the right to see my sister. I have suggested that maybe my sister can arrange the dates that she will visit and she can take my mum out instead. Has anyone else had similar issues??