Hello everyone, my mum has Alzheimers, and my Dad is dying from liver cancer at the moment, he only has maybe a week to live. What a miserable Christmas. I'm sure many of you are facing the same. My mum can't live independently any more, and once my Dad has gone, she needs to come and live with me and my family, but I know she doesn't want to leave her lovely home. How do you go about convincing someone to move when they really don't want to? She is worried that I will take over her life, but I just want her to be happy. The only other option is for her to go into a nursing home near her home, but there will be very few visitors in that case as I live in Ireland, and won't be able to come over very often. I think she'd be much happier with us, but I feel it's going to be hard to persuade her.
Please do you have any tips on how to talk to her?
thanks!
Caroline
Please do you have any tips on how to talk to her?
thanks!
Caroline