Well after 18 months we finnally got the results of my dads brain scan and they have confirmed Alzhimers with LBD... Although my mum and I knew it had to be something like this I cant tell u how much of a shock hearing those words from th Consultant was for us both... My mum cares for him 24/7 and they are both in thier 70's up till now I have not been able to get any help from anyone... I live 90 miles away and have managed to get careline put in and I pay for this, I have bought a walking frame for dad, taken doors off and put slidding doors on so he cant get locked in bathroom, I have tried endlessly to get information for some help for my mum I even had to buy a wheelchair for her to take my dad out. I can't believe there is no financail help or support that they can get to make life a little easier for them. The Consutant has reffered my dad to the dementia team and I'm not sure if this is something they will do or if people have to find out for themselves? I am worn out lol... Im sure if I can get them a little help finaically it would lift my mums spirit. We were told yesterday that dad is medium stage but goodnees knows what that means, all I know he is getting worse daily he doesnt eat cant hold a conversation falls often, and I just want to enable my mum to care for him at home with some assistance but i'm struggling to get my head round all this can anyone give me some advice please?? I simply feel lost and unable to make things better for mum and dad. I guess I have spent too much time and effort into the practical things I didnt think just how much my dads condition would tear me up... I dont let mum see as she is happy tocare for dad when I stay positive and tell her she doing well when inside I'm falling apartas I'm losing my da( gosh this sounds so selfish!) i need topull myself together lol xx thanks for listening P.S i'm really not a selfish person I just feel so alone s this normal