Hello, looking for a bit of advice and what to do next. Bit of background info first.
My dad is 93 and my mum 91, they live independently but rely heavily on me to help. My dad had a number of falls recently and was admitted to hospital for 2 weeks, he’s home now but needs extra help which I and my mum provide, my mum was quite anxious when he came home that he might fall again.
I’ve been increasingly worried about my mum as she‘s very forgetful. Her short term memory is very poor : She would get food out of the freezer for her tea, forget she’s taken it out so cook something else, we’d discuss what she should have for tea but when I speak to her later she’s completely forgotten although she manages to cook hers and my dads meals ok, she asks the same questions constantly in a short conversation. when I take her shopping she forgets what she’s just put in the trolley. She copes perfectly well with everything else in her daily life. Washing, programming the sky, meeting friend for coffee, housework.
I’ve taken her to the doctor and we’ve had blood and water tests that all came back clear. They did some memory tests but she passed all of them and they said there was nothing that was raising any concerns. Could this be normally ‘old age forgetfulness’ or should I be looking for more help to see what the problem is ?
thanks in advance
My dad is 93 and my mum 91, they live independently but rely heavily on me to help. My dad had a number of falls recently and was admitted to hospital for 2 weeks, he’s home now but needs extra help which I and my mum provide, my mum was quite anxious when he came home that he might fall again.
I’ve been increasingly worried about my mum as she‘s very forgetful. Her short term memory is very poor : She would get food out of the freezer for her tea, forget she’s taken it out so cook something else, we’d discuss what she should have for tea but when I speak to her later she’s completely forgotten although she manages to cook hers and my dads meals ok, she asks the same questions constantly in a short conversation. when I take her shopping she forgets what she’s just put in the trolley. She copes perfectly well with everything else in her daily life. Washing, programming the sky, meeting friend for coffee, housework.
I’ve taken her to the doctor and we’ve had blood and water tests that all came back clear. They did some memory tests but she passed all of them and they said there was nothing that was raising any concerns. Could this be normally ‘old age forgetfulness’ or should I be looking for more help to see what the problem is ?
thanks in advance