Oh, Peter - you thought you had got Bridget back again, didnt you? You have yearned so much for it and dared to believe that she was back, only to have dementia spit in your face. Treasure these moments when Bridget is back, even if its only for a few minutes. PS - I have often found that saying "no" to my OH was like a red rag to a bull. Try saying "yes, we will go another day" (start the sentence with "yes" and dont specify which day) when it happens again.