My Dad has been diagnosed with vascular dementia, 2.5 years now. Mum has been caring for him but everything has spiralled down this last week. He has had some health complications. Sent to hospital and my mum has said she can no longer care for him. He is barely there anymore (in his head) visiting hostial every day but he knows us all less and less. I feel bereft. I love my Dad and want him back, he has to ask who I am and who my children are. Then we say 'Love you lots like Jelly Tots' . He hugs me and calls me back and says 'Jelly Tots' . I am heartbroken. I dont know how to deal with this. I want to be strong. I love my Dad so much. Its like someone passing away, but glimmers of hope, then crashed to the floor. I am so down, Im sure my mum is upset and I dont know how to cope.
Im neglecting my husband and children, I come home from hospital ever day, crying and sad, and I dont know how to get out of this behaviour.
Ive a day off from hospital tomorrow, as I need to help my 16 year old get prepared for 6th form. But I feel so sad. I dont know how to stop feeling this way or how to help my mum or Dad.
Im neglecting my husband and children, I come home from hospital ever day, crying and sad, and I dont know how to get out of this behaviour.
Ive a day off from hospital tomorrow, as I need to help my 16 year old get prepared for 6th form. But I feel so sad. I dont know how to stop feeling this way or how to help my mum or Dad.