I am extremely concerned with my grandads welfare and the diagnosis made by his social worker. I'll try and keep it short. He is continually delusional now, convinced he's not in his home but an exact copy in the wrong place. He constantly calls family or asks his carer to pick him up and take him, he very anxious and distressed when we can't, and has started to wonder from home, walking (he's very unsteady), calling taxis, and even the police. His SW says he has capacity because when she asks him if he wants to live there he says yes! Even though she admits he says if there were people outside (she agrees this means the support living flat he's been waiting for). Family feel we are not been listen to or our knowledge of him being taken in to consideration. The SW brought in an independent advocate for a meeting last week because grandad didn't want to attend, even though several family members were there. They had met him once for around an hour. He has a wide supportive family (with LPA) and extended family, plus many friends and neighbours who could advocate for him, can the social worker just do this without consulting us first. He seems to be nearing the later stages of dementia, though the SW assured us he's not (she has not consulted his doctor on this, or taken on board his opinion that he's not safe at home) and I'm worried she's leaving it as long as possible before doing anything and this will be harder for him in the end. Yesterday while looking after my disabled sister I had to field 7 calls from him to stop him getting in a taxi. My mum has this every day (she's nearly 70) and my sister to care for and I've given up a days work each week to cope with everything. I'm running out of...well everything.
I'm currently going crossed eyed reading the MCAct code of practice. Last point, the CQC highlighted a lack of understanding, training, and policies not updated in their recent report, which further worries me. Thanks for reading.
I'm currently going crossed eyed reading the MCAct code of practice. Last point, the CQC highlighted a lack of understanding, training, and policies not updated in their recent report, which further worries me. Thanks for reading.