Hello everyone, new to this so please bare with me. My name is Andy and I have a father who has been living at home with dementia for a couple of years. We have had a care package in place, he has been getting 2 visits a day from a care provider plus family members calling in. My dad has been swearing a lot for about 6 months, every sentence seems to start with or end with the * word. He is also defensive physically, any sudden movements around him he will grab hold of your arm and normally tell you to **** leave him alone or ask what the * are you doing.
I must stress at this point that in no way is my dad aggressive, he has never started anything but does react.
He goes to daycare twice a week and the staff there and his carers, people who know him and what he is like, all love him as he can be very witty and is likeable.
Now to my problem.
In the New Year he had a fall at home and injured himself quite badly. He is still in hospital now although his physical injuries are mending. While he has been in hospital we as a family have agreed that he can no longer be left alone at home so needs full time care. The Social services team have agreed and carried out an assessment on him. They have classified dad as EMI nursing, we think this is due to his perceived aggression. They have given us a couple of choices for residential care home giving emi nursing, which we have been to look at, both giving me the impression of internship and restriction. I don’t feel he deserves to be classified as aggressive all he wants to do is sit, drink tea and eat biscuits, he doesn’t like to be fussed over.
Do we have the right to question the hospitals social services findings and have him re-assessed. We are running out of time.
Sorry this is so long
I must stress at this point that in no way is my dad aggressive, he has never started anything but does react.
He goes to daycare twice a week and the staff there and his carers, people who know him and what he is like, all love him as he can be very witty and is likeable.
Now to my problem.
In the New Year he had a fall at home and injured himself quite badly. He is still in hospital now although his physical injuries are mending. While he has been in hospital we as a family have agreed that he can no longer be left alone at home so needs full time care. The Social services team have agreed and carried out an assessment on him. They have classified dad as EMI nursing, we think this is due to his perceived aggression. They have given us a couple of choices for residential care home giving emi nursing, which we have been to look at, both giving me the impression of internship and restriction. I don’t feel he deserves to be classified as aggressive all he wants to do is sit, drink tea and eat biscuits, he doesn’t like to be fussed over.
Do we have the right to question the hospitals social services findings and have him re-assessed. We are running out of time.
Sorry this is so long