Hi everyone, I’m just wondering if anyone else has experienced something similar or has any advice.
My dad has advanced dementia and has been a resident in a care home for almost a year.
My sibling has made numerous claims against the care home which have been investigated by the local authorities safe guarding team and no wrong doing found.
She has also challenged the DOLS which is in place stating that he has mental capacity to make his own decisions, which he does not.
A best interests meeting took place in as she wanted to take Dad living with her but it was deemed not in his best interest to leave the care facility.
His placement is permanent and they have previously stated that they can facilitate his needs up until end of life.
I have always had a good relationship with the care home staff and feel he is well cared for there.
My sibling has now made an accusation against the care home saying that my dad has been assaulted by one of the Carers because he told her so. As stated earlier, he doesn’t have all capacity and has no awareness of where he is etc.
There is no evidence to suggest that it may be true however my sibling confronted the staff member and made accusations.
The care home manager has now stated that she may be looking to evict him due to the constant accusations and unsavory behavior towards staff from my sibling.
I am beside myself as he will likely end up in a dementia plus unit and potentially out of borough if they do go ahead with this suggestion to remove him.
Surely he has some rights that they would be violating as he hasn’t done anything to warrant being kicked out. It it purely because they are fed up of the constant accusations and confrontational behavior by visitors.
I just don’t know which way to turn and I am beside myself with worry as to what this will mean for him moving forwards.
Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated
My dad has advanced dementia and has been a resident in a care home for almost a year.
My sibling has made numerous claims against the care home which have been investigated by the local authorities safe guarding team and no wrong doing found.
She has also challenged the DOLS which is in place stating that he has mental capacity to make his own decisions, which he does not.
A best interests meeting took place in as she wanted to take Dad living with her but it was deemed not in his best interest to leave the care facility.
His placement is permanent and they have previously stated that they can facilitate his needs up until end of life.
I have always had a good relationship with the care home staff and feel he is well cared for there.
My sibling has now made an accusation against the care home saying that my dad has been assaulted by one of the Carers because he told her so. As stated earlier, he doesn’t have all capacity and has no awareness of where he is etc.
There is no evidence to suggest that it may be true however my sibling confronted the staff member and made accusations.
The care home manager has now stated that she may be looking to evict him due to the constant accusations and unsavory behavior towards staff from my sibling.
I am beside myself as he will likely end up in a dementia plus unit and potentially out of borough if they do go ahead with this suggestion to remove him.
Surely he has some rights that they would be violating as he hasn’t done anything to warrant being kicked out. It it purely because they are fed up of the constant accusations and confrontational behavior by visitors.
I just don’t know which way to turn and I am beside myself with worry as to what this will mean for him moving forwards.
Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated
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