Hi everyone, first time posting here. My dad has mixed dementia coupled with terminal bladder cancer. He needs to pee all the time but doesn’t know where the loo is mostly. He knows his loved ones still but barely knows himself and doesn’t recognise the house he lives in. My parents moved a year ago. My mum is his primary carer but she is disabled, unable to walk at all and uses a mobility scooter to get around. She’s also suffered two heart attacks and now heart function only 30%. God just writing that down sounds unbelievable. Add to that the corona virus. I know mum can’t look after dad . My brother and I are doing all we can, I’m working from there during the day but my mum is still exhausted. I can’t bear to lose them both. I know a care home is the right thing but it’s such a hard decision in these crazy times to say goodbye to someone who still knows you, to live with strangers and die alone. But if we wait, I might lose my mum too!! Any advice is much appreciated x