One of the issues I am having with Dad at the moment (who is nearly end stage kidney failure hence needing frequent wees) is managing transfers to commode. Dad is not quite completely off his legs all the time but at great risk of falling . He independantly tries to get to commode with varying degrees of success. I can't get him to wear incontinents pads and I can't get him to use a urine bottle. The dementia is making him irrational and unaware of the dangers and his own limitations. I can't arrange for double up carers to assist him because as he tells me, he can't turn the tap on to order.
I am left trying to manage him at random times throughout the day. How do you cope with this on your own at home? suggestions welcome.
Is this one of the final stages of dementia or the final stage?- hallucinations, constant calling, mostly off his legs, lack of coordination, awake by night asleep all afternoon, constant fiddling with trousers, pants etc, slurring words and talking nonsense (yes no UTI or infection) -oh and not eating much at all (yes have things from dietician but refuses them)
I am left trying to manage him at random times throughout the day. How do you cope with this on your own at home? suggestions welcome.
Is this one of the final stages of dementia or the final stage?- hallucinations, constant calling, mostly off his legs, lack of coordination, awake by night asleep all afternoon, constant fiddling with trousers, pants etc, slurring words and talking nonsense (yes no UTI or infection) -oh and not eating much at all (yes have things from dietician but refuses them)